How To Get Through The Middle of the Journey

How To Get Through The Middle of the Journey

It was 4am on January 6th, 2014. On this day, Chicago was hit by what was called the “Polar Vortex” where northern cities across the United States were hitting record low temperatures. It was a reported âˆ’16 Â°F (−27 Â°C) with a wind chill causing it to be âˆ’40 Â°F, so cold that Celsius and Fahrenheit measurements are actually the same. Like many people across the country, just one week earlier I had set big goals for the New Year.  

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3 Reasons Why We Procrastinate - And How To Overcome Them!

3 Reasons Why We Procrastinate - And How To Overcome Them!

“Doing is better than perfect.” – Facebook Company Motto

There you sit. You have the goal in front of you, but you are not quite sure how you need to proceed. You have visualized what this project will look like when it is finished and you cannot wait to see it completed. 

But for whatever reason it just does not feel like the right time to get started right now. You feel a little “off”. You do not know exactly where to start and there is not enough time on your schedule to get everything you would want to get done. 

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Internal Locus of Control - Why You Should Focus on the Process, Not the Result

Internal Locus of Control - Why You Should Focus on the Process, Not the Result

The clock was ticking down as the UCLA Bruins were about to defeat the Seattle University Redhawks in the round of 16 game of the 1964 NCAA basketball tournament. The Bruins came into the game undefeated and were up 95-90. The win was all but assured, yet legendary coach John Wooden was not happy.

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The Power of a Great Purpose

The Power of a Great Purpose

The Civil Rights movement of the 1950s and 1960s serves as one of the most historic movements in the United States of America. African Americans, who had never been treated as equals in the entire history of the American South, finally said “enough”.

It was time to stop being treated as second-class citizens. It was time to stop being abused for the sake of their color, and it was time to make a stand against the oppression they had faced for centuries. And the catalyst of the entire movement was one simple seamstress who would not give up her seat on a bus to a white passenger

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The Marshmallow Test - Why Developing Willpower is So Important

The Marshmallow Test - Why Developing Willpower is So Important

In 1970, psychologists Walter Mischel and Ebbe B. Ebbesen invited a group of 4-year olds into a laboratory for what may have been the toughest test of their short lives. They sat down at a table by themselves with a delicious, tempting, marshmallow on a plate in front of them.

They were told that they could eat the marshmallow if they wanted to right now, but if they could wait 15 minutes, they would be able to have 2 marshmallows. As a 4 year-old, this was painful to say the least. 

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The Rule of One Thousand Ones - How To Accomplish Big Things by Focusing on Little Ones

The Rule of One Thousand Ones - How To Accomplish Big Things by Focusing on Little Ones

In 2009, a man named Joe DeSena founded a company called "Spartan Race". Spartan Race is an obstacle course that is typically run in trails where runners must climb up ropes, crawl under barbed wire, and scale over walls. Since then, the Spartan Race has grown rapidly; expanding into 17 countries and having over 1 million race participants in 2014.

But before DeSena created one of the top races in a fast growing sport, he sustained a hip injury and was told that he would never be able to run again. Being a tough competitor, DeSena sought to prove those doctors wrong...by running 14 Ironman Triathlons! 

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5 Willpower Strategies To Survive the Holidays

5 Willpower Strategies To Survive the Holidays

It’s that time of year again.

A time when we make time for friends, family and feasts. To most, it is a time to cut back on our daily routines, relax and enjoy the great cooking, holiday treats and festive eggnog. 

Unfortunately, it is also the time of year that many can lose all of the progress that they have made on their goals in just a few days of indulging. Even though we may have earned the time to relax and spend time with family does not mean that our bodies should be the ones to pay the price.

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Why Success is Found in Simplicity

Why Success is Found in Simplicity

The coaching staff of a high school cross-country running team recently got together for dinner after winning its second state championship in two years.  

"I don't get it," said one of the coaches. "Why are we so successful? We don't work any harder than any other teams. And what we do is just so simple. Why does it work?"

He was referring to the strategy of the program: Run best at the end.  

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The Science of Limits - How Far Can You Really Go?

The Science of Limits - How Far Can You Really Go?

“He might be the world’s best ultra-endurance athlete” –The New York Times

In 2004, a man named Jure Robic won the Insight Race Across America for the 2nd year in a row. The race, commonly referred to as RAAM, is a non-stop 3,000-mile bike tour that is a full 800 miles longer than the Tour de France!  

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Become The Best Version of Yourself Through Self-Monitoring

Become The Best Version of Yourself Through Self-Monitoring

Breaking a promise to our friends, to our family, or to our boss seems almost unfathomable. We will go to almost heroic lengths to not let them down. We want them to know that they can trust us. That we can deliver for them. That when we say something, we are going to do it.

But when it comes to a promise to ourselves...that’s a different story. We promise ourselves that this time we’re going to make it to the gym 4 times a week, cut back on spending, and eat healthier. But for some reason if we don’t keep that promise, we’re not too upset about it.

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Why Your Brain Is Built For Focus, Deliberate Practice and Slow Progress

Why Your Brain Is Built For Focus, Deliberate Practice and Slow Progress

“Humans are remarkably weak and vulnerable creatures.”  - Robert Greene

As the top of the food chain, it is hard for us to imagine that for millions of years humans were weak and vulnerable. We were less than 5 feet tall, slow, and our muscles were exceptionally weak compared to our predators.

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Why Willpower Is A Limited Resource - And How You Can Quickly Restore It

Why Willpower Is A Limited Resource - And How You Can Quickly Restore It

“What have I done to deserve this?!”

Said Amanda Palmer as a frat boy tried to shove his head into her crotch. Palmer, an up and coming musician, was spending her days as a living statue in order to help pay the bills. She would spend hours in a bridal costume on top of a box in the middle of Harvard Square and would not move an inch.

Some people would insult her, others would try to make her laugh, and some would threaten to steal the money she had been collecting. But through it all, she remained completely still.

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6 Factors That Influence Our Behavior

6 Factors That Influence Our Behavior

“This time is going to be different.”

Those are the first words we tell ourselves when we set a goal and plan to change our behavior. It does not matter if that behavior change was to quit smoking, lose weight or start exercising. Despite our past failures, we believe that it’s going to be different.

For most of us, “this time” is rarely ever different. We set up an unrealistic plan to achieve our goal and get burned out within the first couple of weeks. But for a rare few, “this time” really is different! 

 

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Want To Lose Weight? 10 Reasons You Should Not Go On a Diet

Want To Lose Weight? 10 Reasons You Should Not Go On a Diet

Overeating is a harder addiction to break than addiction to heroin. [1]

That's right, heroin. Dr. David Ludwig and his associates, came across this finding when testing the reward centers in the brain of those suffering with obesity and those suffering with heroin addiction. When certain foods - especially those high in fat and sugar - were presented, the reward centers in the brain of those with obesity lit up identically to those addicted to heroin. Meaning that their bodies crave food as much as a heroin addict crave their next fix.

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The Evolution of Willpower: Why We Are Wired To Indulge, But Can Always Choose Not To

The Evolution of Willpower: Why We Are Wired To Indulge, But Can Always Choose Not To

Imagine you have been sent back thousands of years to pre-civilized society. All of your modern-day comforts are gone. Your goals of losing weight, becoming more productive and learning a new language have now been replaced by securing food, finding a mate and keeping safe from predators.

All of your thoughts, all of your focus, all of your creativity are now simply on securing these 3 things in order to survive. This was the case for us over millions and millions of years of evolution, and it explains our modern day problems with willpower. 

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